So as I promised..I am here with Part 2.2 of Breaking the stereotypes i.e. The stereotypes associated with a Boy…Hope you guys like it😊😊(To read the previous parts…go on to the menu and click breaking the stereotypes)
I am a boy….and since my birth I have been told NOT TO CRY.I have always been encouraged to STAY STRONG and AGGRESSIVE to hold on to my status of being a MAN.About my attitude towards problems….I think the best way is to be PRACTICAL (but please keep me out of the household drama).
Moving on to my preferences….I love action movies and video games (unlike the girls who love shitty Romantic Comedies and Ahhh….how can I forget about those shitty serials???). And as far as I remember…till my 6th birthday or so…people always used to gift me toy guns… toy planes and stuff.(I think they are really cool). Further…I am a mad gym lover and I guess my cool rocking playlist adds to my joy of being in a gym (the only motive of my life is to have 6 pack abs and flirt with girls).And yesssss…..to everyone who’s reading it….the only thing I want to clear is that I HATE SHOPPING..(never call me up if you wanna buy something).
Now…since I am telling you every shitty thing about me…so I guess you won’t mind if I request you to never ask me to cook or to perform any household tasks.(afterall I am not a girl..)
Just to add to our conversation I want to tell you that I can never be influenced by anyone.I think being blunt is the new cool.(who cares about others..I AM INDEPENDANT).
I am technical and I think that’s the reason I LOVE MATHS..I am more money Minded and I think money can buy every damn thing in this world (who cares about love??)Of course I can work more efficiently than all the women out there..
About Driving??? Why are you even asking me this question??? (NO ONE CAN MATCH UP TO MY DRIVING SKILLS)..infact I think Girls are the worst drivers you’ll ever meet…why do they even try to drive??
About sports?? Leave it. I am always the best.Afterall all the famous sports personalities are men.
Last but not the least….I want to tell you that being a man…I have all the rights to drink Alcohol..drive in a haphazard manner and Dominate all the girls out there..isn’t it??
So….these were the stories of both the girls and the boys.But we have actually had enough.I mean not every girl is a fan of romantic movies and serials and not every boy loves action.Neither all the boys love maths nor all the girls hate it.We need to grow up now….as a society…a country and a human race….we need to understand that even boys can be emotional and caring….and it’s absolutely normal….Even girls can drive amazingly and they are not meant to be bounded by the limits of our mindset.
Both men and women have the ability to cook phenomenally and both of them should be given an equal chance to showcase their talent in sports and other activities.We need to think differently and be the change..It’s really important to know that both the boys and the girls have an equal right to choose their life partners…And most importantly..We donot have any right to judge anyone’s character.With this thought let’s begin a new chain of revolution where all of us would be EQUAL…irrespective of our GENDER.
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First of all Eid Mubarak to everyone out there…❤❤….may God bless you all with a lot of happiness in life😊
GENDER….I guess this word tends to describe our personality even more than our behaviour.Don’t believe me?? Read the stories of both the girls and the boys in Part-II of Breaking the Stereotypes.(It will be further divided in 2 parts)
I am a girl and I am not strong enough to match the boys around.(or may be I am dependant on them).Never ask me my age because I will kill you if you do.Always limit bounded..I need to take care of the fact that I am A GIRL…and I have no right to go out after 10 and do night shifts at my job.Moreover….I will never be able to work better than men…so what’s the point of arguing??
Wanna know a secret??I am really conscious about my weight?(what would people think of me??)
Driving???NEVER EVER let me drive your vehicle….it will surely become a victim of my bad driving skills.
DONOT MESS WITH ME during my periods…i swear you’ll regret .(But why are we even talking about it??? I am not even allowed at the holy places during THOSE DAYS)
Moving on to my SPECIALITIES…I am the best cook you would ever encounter..(though most of the chefs in this world are men)..I am emotionally stronger(though I am a cry baby and I cry a lot)…and of course I can handle problems better than men.People often say that I am the sweetest person you’ll meet…and the most caring creature made by the God himself.
About my preferences??? I love Romantic movies and serials.
Never dare to ask me if I like maths or not..because I HATE MATHS.
Coming on to my favourite things in this world…MAKEUP AND SHOPPING.(yes..you…the one who’s reading it….if you are free..please accompany me to a shopping mall….actually I need to buy some stuff for my kitty).
And….last but not the least I will punch you if you forget my birthday..(or my kitty’s)…because it’s the most important qualification to be my friend.
But…you know what??it’s really sad because people always see me as a good mother….a good sister or a good life partner….they never think of me as a fighter…a learner and an achiever….and…i guess this scenario is never gonna change…😦😦
(To know what the counter part (the boys) says….wait for tomorrow’s post – #BreakingTheStereotypes (PART-2.2))
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their colour….Choosing your socks by its character makes no sense…and choosing your friends by their colour is unthinkable. -Anonymous
I am here with the first part of Breaking the stereotypes..Hope you guys like it..😊❤
FAIRNESS….how can just a word with 8 letters define someone’s beauty?? Ever had a look at the matrimonial sites?? The first thing most of the people demand is a FAIR LOOKING LIFE PARTNER.The question is WHY??
The story started when our favourite fairy tales started portraying FAIR as BEAUTIFUL..when we started selling and using fairness creams to make ourselves realise that if we weren’t that fair…we weren’t BEAUTIFUL enough.”Get a fair skin tone in just 4 weeks” they said…and they gave birth to this disgusting mindset.
Black has always been considered as abominable..we often use words like BLACK MAGIC..BLACK TONGUE…BLACK DEEDS…and what not??it has always meant something which is not acceptable..and this thought has provoked the most famous stereotype of all the times- BEING WHITE IS EQUALLY PROPORTIONAL TO BEING SUPERIOR!
But….enough of this shit now..the shade of our skin CANNOT define our beauty..( of course our shitty mindset can)..so let’s make humanity proud of us…and make this world realise that having a mind which thinks for the revolution of the people around…..is the most beautiful thing ever!❤
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What defines you socially is not what you actually are…
Ok. I know it has been a while now since I have posted something new..so here I am with this new series of posts called “BREAKING THE STEREOTYPES”.
First of all…..a stereotype is a preconceived notion about a person or a group of people..
Have you guys ever experienced someone laughing at you because you love someone from the opposite sex???…..or have you ever in your life heard about someone telling a boy that he doesn’t need to work?What is the first thought you have when you see a female taxi/ truck driver? Oh! of course some of you guys wouldn’t even have seen a lady driver…(even I haven’t encountered one)Ever accepted your child/sibling/friend or any of your relatives changing his/her religion?(If you accept it….trust me…this world needs more people like you).
Why is our personality and our identity just limited to these stereotypes?? Why can’t we see someone standing out of the limits of our thinking???
This is just a trailer of how the world around us has been surrounded by these long lasting stereotypes….The film is yet to release..So…it’s time to BREAK THE STEREOTYPES…to think beyond bars and BE THE CHANGE we want to witness in this world…I guess…this is the only way we can develop as a society..as a country..and as a human race..
This is actually going to be a series of weekly posts which will force you to see this world with a different and an improved perspective.